05.29.08

“It’s My Life, I Can Do What I Want” – “I’m Crying” – Eric Burdon & The Animals

Posted in Finances, Inspiration tagged , at 11:05 pm by otherdeb

An online friend and I were discussing some upcoming changes in her life revolving around her church, and the conversation turned to how one acquires one’s beliefs. We both had experimented in the past, and finally returned to what we grew up with, and tossed around a few concepts, such as that when you have removed all the things you are not, what is left is what you are; and that unexamined belief is a scary thing.

Well, in further thinking about the second concept, it seems to me that a lot of us get into, and stay in, financial difficulties because of unexamined beliefs. Since the beliefs vary according to each person, I’m not going to go into them right now. I am, instead, going to concentrate on how we can make more conscious choices regarding our finances and futures.

It’s very easy (and very comfortable) to just keep on doing what we have always done. The problem with that is that, often, people do what they have always done and wonder why they get the same results they have always gotten. This was driven home to me the other day when a friend was writing out a check to renew a subscription to a magazine. Now, for most of us, this would not be a problem, but: 1) Her account was overdrawn and her paycheck had not dropped. 2) Even if #1 were not the case, she has no clue ever as to how much is in her account at any given time. 3) Further, she has no idea as to which creditors are going to take out how much from her account or when they will do it. I asked her why she was spending money she didn’t really have, and it brought her up short. She had not realized she was doing that. We ended up having a talk about decision-making, and how learning to stop and think and make choices, rather than running on automatic, might affect her finances.

My point is that wanting to get out of debt is useless without examining what you are doing that keeps you in debt. It’s not easy to do, and not pleasant, but it is the way to go. As with unexamined religious belief, it’s easy to just go on in the same manner you always have, but then your efforts are really empty. Even having a real desire to get free from debt is not enough to accomplish that goal. What will get you there are conscious choices.

Now, hopefully you want to know what I mean by that. I mean that getting out of debt is the result of a series of small choices, made at every step of the way. Those small choices eventually build into a major shift of your attitudes, and to more actions which further your goal.

It can be as small a decision as putting the money you might spend on a latte toward one of your bills instead, or paying off one small debt each paycheck. It can be looking to see why you make the decisions you do. It can be making a list of all the debts you owe – even the personal ones that your friends are willing to wait for years for you to get around to. Each small decision – each small, conscious choice – helps build a foundation from which to make the next one. And, each small victory is a step on the way to leading your life – not as an echo of someone else’s life – but the way you want to live it.

What are two small changes you can make in your life (or in your spending) that you think could have big effects further down the road?

05.26.08

An Introspective Moment

Posted in Backstory, Inspiration tagged at 11:52 pm by otherdeb

Okay, I wasn’t tagged for this one. But the “big kids” on the block seem to be reflecting on where they were ten years ago, and the idea intrigued me, so here goes, although I changed the time frame to look back fifteen years:

1993: I had just left another pointless secretarial job. I was in debt up to my kiester, and walking with crutches as a result of falling on the same ankle six times in five months. Although I had a lovely little attic apartment, I could not climb the stairs to get to it and was living on the couch of some friends. Those were the major bad points.

There were some good points. I sold my first story (“Geniecon”), and it was published in a Mike Resnick/Martin H. Greenberg anthology: Aladdin: Master of the Lamp. I then sold two more, joined SFWA, and realized that I was hardly the worst writer out there. I attended my first Worldcon, where I got to meet a lot of the writers I had been talking with online.

I was also in total financial denial. The friends I was staying with loaned me money for Worldcon when my wallet was stolen on the way to the Amtrak station. My credit cards were maxed out. My Unemployment checks were barely enough to cover my rent, even though they were the highest bracket my state granted. My checkbook was a mess. (And, yes, the series on acquiring and maintaining a checking account is based on things it took me decades to become rigorous about!) I had a depression that was at least the size of Minnesota, because all I could see was that everything was falling apart, and I had no clue where to attack the mess.

Contrast that to now: I’m thinking of leaving my current job in five years so that I can work independently. I am doing the type of writing I wanted to, even though I have not yet turned it into an income stream. Not only are my credit cards not maxed out, but only one of them has any balance left on it, and I just cut up the one that charged me the highest interest. I have a (admittedly) very tiny emergency fund, and am planning how to grow that. I am, by no means, out of the woods yet, but for the first time I can see the clearing beyond the trees.

What created the changes? The first thing is that I finally stopped deluding myself, and took a long, hard look at what I owed, and at what I was facing. I then gave some real hard thought to my life. What I found was that in any area but financial, my word was good as gold. When it came to finances, however, I would say anything or do almost anything to get what I needed. Further, I was very good at excuses and at avoiding being accountable for my actions. I was also living way beyond my means.

Sometimes, I still find myself struggling to keep my word on things financial. There were, however, several good reasons for me to do so. A lot of my growing up had to do with my roommate’s shortcomings: One of us had to start, and it was pretty clear it was not going to be her. Another motivator was meeting my fiancé: Once we decided we were serious, we also decided that neither of us wanted to foist our financial baggage on the other. The biggest motivator was, of course, that I got tired of living the way I was. I want to be truly independent, and the only way I could do that was by clearing up my act.

I won’t say it’s easy; it’s not. There are times I wish I could just buy what I want, and not think about whether or not I can afford it. But right now, this is the way it is, and – in the long run, which is what counts – it will be to my benefit.

Am I glad I’ve made the changes I have? You bet. Would I do it again? Yep. Do I wish I had not needed to? Absolutely. Still, the hardest thing to do sometimes is to let go of the past, and move forward, and I see progress along those lines. And that feels better than anything I could buy myself.

What do you see when you look back? Have the changes you have made been primarily positive? What small steps are you looking at taking to move forward in your life?

05.24.08

A milestone of sorts

Posted in Finances, Inspiration tagged , at 10:43 am by otherdeb

I was going to wait until Monday to post this, but I am so happy that I was finally able to cut up my first credit card that I wanted to post the letter I sent the company.

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My address

24 May, 2008

$EVILBANK

Re: VISA Account Number

Gentlemen:

Since repeated efforts to negotiate a lower interest rate or to remove the monthly fee charged in addition to the annual fee have failed, I am enclosing, per your instructions, my cut up credit card.

Please terminate the above account, effective immediately  I have already made the May payment of the $8 service charge, and expect that there will be no further charges of any sort to this account.

Sincerely,

Deborah J. Wunder

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The roommate was with me for the ceremonial cutting up of the card and reading of the first draft of the letter.  We are both hoping there will be many more of these as we both get our acts in order.

What constitues a milestone for you on your journey?  If not a formal milestone, what are the things that make you feel the ride is worthwhile?

A quick note

Posted in announcements, giveaways tagged , at 8:54 am by otherdeb

For those who love jewelry, Simple Mom is doing a jewelry giveaway. This one ends tomorrow, so be sure to enter right away!

05.22.08

Checking Basics 101 – Maintaining Your Checking Account

Posted in Finances tagged at 11:32 pm by otherdeb

Okay. You now have a checking account. If you have decent credit, you might even have one with bells and whistles, such as interest, low fees, overdraft protection, or some combination of the above. The next step is learning how to use it to minimize charges and prevent returned (“bounced”) checks.

The first step is to know the rules, provisions, and charges that go with your account. Yeah, this means, in plain English, READ THE DAMNED FINE PRINT! Seriously. It’s how you will know how long it will take for your deposits to become available, what fees your bank or credit union will charge for various services, whether or not you need to maintain a minimum balance and how much it is, what penalties will be assessed for returned checks or being overdrawn, etc. For example, my credit union has an online bill-pay service that is free as long as you schedule at least one payment per month through it. For any month you do not do so, you are assessed a $5.00 service charge.

Your next step is even more self-evident: Do not write a check unless the funds to cover it are both IN YOUR ACCOUNT and AVAILABLE FOR USE. In 1987, Congress passed The Expedited Funds Availability Act, which sets rules as to how long banks may hold your deposit before clearing it for your use; in 2003, they passed The Check Clearing for the 21st Century Act, which effectively did away with the float (the delay between when a check is presented for deposit by a payee and when the money is actually deducted from your account).

Further, at the end of the day some banks process debits to your account before credits, so if your deposit and a check written against it hit your bank the same day, your check might be returned or paid against uncleared funds. Regardless of whether the check is returned or paid, you will be charged. My roommate’s bank charges $5.00 less if it pays the item than if it returns it, but those charges still mount up. Also, if only part of your deposit is available, or if your deposit was made after whatever your bank declares to be end of day for deposits, the same problems may occur. Not only that, but they may cause shortfalls in your account, creating a nasty snowball effect (of more checks bouncing and more charges levied against your account) that can rapidly become an avalanche!

Next, you need to know WHO is going to debit your account directly, HOW MUCH they will take, and WHEN they will take it. This means that any time you set up a payment plan wherein a third party (collection agency, phone company, Internet loan shark, etc.) will debit your account directly, you must not only know how much they are supposed to take, and when they will do so, but you must follow up by checking your account each time to ensure that only the agreed-upon amount was taken. Further – and this seems to be where many people have problems – you must record each of these transactions in your check register. If you don’t, you will neither have an accurate picture of what is in your account at any moment, nor be able to balance your checkbook.

As you can see, maintaining a checking account requires nothing more than common sense and consistent record-keeping. Once you have acquired those habits, balancing your checkbook, which I will cover in the next part of this series, is easy.

05.19.08

Checking Basics 101 – Acquiring a Checking Account or Functioning Without One

Posted in Finances tagged at 12:15 am by otherdeb

One of the most important tools for getting yourself out of debt is a continually balanced checkbook. (Please note that I did not say a bounteous checking account, although that helps!) This requires that you actually have a checking account, or develop a way to function without one.

For many of you, having a checking account is something you take for granted. However, there are those of us who – for one reason or another – have not only lost our checking accounts, but have been reported to ChexSystems (the banking equivalent of TransUnion, Equifax and Experian). For us, acquiring a checking account becomes an exercise of the same approximate ease as finding the Holy Grail.

For those of us in this position, there are two alternatives (which are not, actually, mutually exclusive).

First, you can develop ways to survive without a checking account. This can take some creativity on your part, but here are some things I did to survive without having to continually pay out fees to pay things.

  • You can pay to buy money orders for everything. The advantage: you will have a receipt for your payments. The disadvantage: you will pay anywhere from $.75 to $3.00 for a money order. These fees mount up very quickly.

  • You can use an agency to cash your paychecks. The advantage: if you have a government or corporate paycheck, this will give you quick easy access to your money. The disadvantages: check cashing facilities ALWAYS take a percentage of your check as a fee. For my checks, which were in the $560 range, this meant I was giving the check cashing facility $7-8 per check. Again, these fees mount up. Also, these places will only cash certain types of checks. If a friend offers to help you out, for example, you will not be able to cash his check. Further, these places often have time limits as to how long you can hold a check before cashing it. Most will not honor a check more than thirty days after the date it was issued.

  • You can ask a friend to cash your paychecks and other checks you receive. The advantage: no fee. The disadvantages: your friend will know what your income is. Also, unless you have an exceptionally supportive friend, he or she may get tired of doing you this favor. Further, his or her bank might not want to take a third-party check.

  • You can ask a friend to write checks for you. The advantage: no fee. The disadvantages: you will pretty much need to have the money in hand to give to your friend when asking (or at least have a definite date when you will put the cash in his or her hand). And, as above, your friend may tire of having to keep writing checks for you.

While you are doing the above, you should be researching the second alternative: acquiring a new checking account. First, there is an interesting article here that you should read. The author has been through the process and has a good idea of what you are up against. The main thing to remember is to avoid any site that wants to sell you a list. The lists are on the Web for free. A Google search on “ChexSystems victims” provided more than ten pages of resources.

If all else fails, there are a ton of websites that will sell you the lists, but they tend to ask $50 to $100 for a list. Again, since you can – with a bit of patience – find the information yourself, I don’t recommend this.

What I did was to look for banks and credit unions in my area. I found that all the banks did use either ChexSystems or Telecheck, but that many of the local credit unions did not. I also found that some banks would open a savings account without using ChexSystems, but these were the exceptions rather than the rule. Credit unions, I found, often had a set of idiosyncratic requirements for opening accounts, but were much more available to folks with problems (for example, the credit union I’m now using only required that I either live or work in Brooklyn, New York, and I do both). Since my job and home are some distance from the credit union, I filled out a form at work to deposit my paycheck directly, and they do so free of charge.

Okay. You have now (hopefully) acquired a new checking account. The next step is to keep that account balanced and functioning in a way that maximizes your money. I will cover that in the next installment of this series.

05.14.08

Just a note

Posted in Finances tagged at 10:48 pm by otherdeb

Today, I filled out my April 2008 report at NetworthIQ. I have done so sporadically since July 2007. There is some good news, too: Since I last filled out a report in September 2007, I have reduced my debt by $821. Okay, you may say it’s not a lot, but on a salary of under $20,000/ann., I am pretty proud of this.

Further, while my net worth is still negative, it is less so than when I started: Back in July 2007, I owed $59,704; as of this report, I owe $41,122. This is a reduction of $18,582. Again, not bad on a salary of less than $20,000/ann.

Granted, to do this, I have had to get creative. I sold things I was no longer using, switched to the library instead of buying books, started taking surveys online for cash, started taking advantage of free offers, and cutting down substantially on eating out.

Now, I know I still have a long way to go. Next steps are getting my bicycle checked out by a friend, and getting my cycling legs back, so I can cut down on transit spending (not to mention improving my health), paying off that last credit card, increasing my emergency fund, and continuing to figure out ways to generate extra income.

05.12.08

“I Think I See the Light” – Cat Stevens

Posted in Finances tagged at 4:41 pm by otherdeb

First, let me apologize for the unexpected hiatus, and commit to not having that happen again. I had some medical issues which have been (mostly) resolved.

The good news is that I cleaned up another credit card on Tuesday! I cannot tell you how happy that makes me! I have one card with a small balance (under $120), some personal loans, and my student loans to pay off; then I will finally be debt-free for the first time in my adult life!

I’m not kidding myself here. These last bits will not be easy to do; the personal loans come to about $30,000, as do the student loans, but I intend to use the wonderful snowflake method described at I’ve Paid for this Twice Already to attack them.

Fortunately, I had consolidated my student loans just before the government tightened up on them in 2005 and, when I ended up in a job that paid one-third of what my former job did, I was able to put the consolidated loans into forbearance. I don’t recommend doing this because, while you are not paying on the loans, interest continues to accrue, but it was the best choice I could make at the time.

So, my current plan (once that last credit card is cleared up) is to pay down as many of my personal debts as possible before the student loans come out of forbearance at the end of this year, alternating loan payments with emergency fund deposits. Realistically, this means it will be about three and a half years to four years before I will be completely debt-free. Given that I have spent the last thirty-five years in debt of varying sorts, I think I can wait to finish the process.

05.09.08

Requieskitty in Peace – an Interim Post

Posted in Finances, Inspiration tagged , at 9:49 pm by otherdeb

This entry is in loving memory of Furball (1988-2008), who was about the best feline a human could have been owned by.

Very early this morning, I had to take my beloved Furball to be put to sleep. It was, of course, traumatic; not the least because he had been with me through four apartments, two relationships, temp work, homelessness, and several serious medical issues. The actual process was quick and peaceful. He was given a shot, closed his eyes, sort-of sighed and was gone, with me petting him the whole time.

His greatest gift to me, however was his last. What I got to realize throughout the episode was that if this had happened, oh, two years ago, I’d have been calling everyone I knew to borrow money to pay for it. Not only that, but doing so would have sidelined me financially for a fairly long time.

This time it was different. My roommate contributed the fare for the taxis to and from the hospital (about half an hour away by car), but I didn’t have to ask any of my friends for money. Yes, I had to use a credit card to pay for it, which I would have preferred to not have to do. However, I did not have to use any of the credit cards that I had paid off. And the card I did use, which I had mostly paid down, was not maxed out after I used it (and is now resting in my desk drawer, where it will stay until it, too, is paid in full).

Okay, it’s a small victory, and it would have been much nicer to have a cash emergency fund to take the money out of instead, but that will come. The main thing is that I was able to handle the emergency without the usual anxiety that accompanies not having the resources to do so.

Thank you again, Furball. I hope that wherever you are you have a soft bed, nice company, and all the mice you want to chase.